BETTE'S ARE OFF?: Now, that's what we call a sticky situation. Bette Midler's been nominated for a Grammy for her Rosemary Clooney tribute album. Unfortunately, she's running against Clooney herself, as her Last Album is nominated in the same category. Considering that it's not much of a tribute to risk prising the a Grammy from the cold, dead fingers of the one to whom you would pay tribute, Midler looks like she'll withdraw herself from consideration for the award. It'll probably wind up going to Rod Stewart anyway.