Perhaps they just don't like you?

Nicole Scherzinger, who is one of the Pussycat Dolls, has been moaning that men don't hit on her in bars. She has decided this is because she's intimidating:

"Guys are usually frightened of me so I don't really get hit on a lot.

"I think that's because it's the way, as a female, if you carry yourself in a certain way you don't get that.

"If you show that you are no nonsense and mean business, guys are less likely to bother with you."

Oh, yes, because you day job of writhing about in your knickers singing about how hot you are must make you come across like a veritable Germaine Greer figure.

You don't think the reason men don't come up to you in bars and ask you to dance might have less to do with them being intimidated by your "businesslike" attitude, and more to do with them being intimidated by the bouncers who patrol the edge of the VIP roping you'll be on the other side of?